When a homo sapiens had noticed that to live in a group is more profitable and more enjoyable, he realized that without special preliminary agreements established in the community, the normal collective life would not turn out Исправлено: would turn out. Once the tribe leaders gathered and decided that it was necessary to establish the rules by which to live in the society so that each member of their tribe was feeling good and was able to contact the tribe without disturbing each other's comfort zones.

The organization of the society has been changed by centuries. Every new social order created its own rules for its representatives’ behavior according to its perceptions of the appropriate communication. The word "etiquette" came from the French language where it meant a "label, note." That was the name of the card, which described how one should conduct at the court of the French King Louis XIV. They had been handed out to the guests of the king before they visited the monarch. In Russia, the first set of rules of etiquette is "Domostroy" which describes the possible behaviors in the family.

Modern standards of behavior went beyond a single protocol document. The rules of etiquette differ greatly depending on the social, cultural, professional, and even situational environment. Thus, all rules of etiquette are composed of two factors of behavior:

1. Moral and ethical behavior, that is a manifestation of public morality, the expression of premeditate care, protection and respect.

2. Aesthetic, that means the grace and beauty of behavioral forms.

In some well-established rules it is sometimes difficult to trace the history of their origin and their appropriateness. But when being taken by the certain society, the rules are traditionally exercised by those members who want to emphasize the affiliation to this society. For other people who do not belong to this society or are not seeking the ways to get into it, those rules sometimes seem to be just fun.

In Turkey, the well-mannered owners welcome guests …in the bathhouse.

Japanese owners do not invite guests to the table, even rice cakes are not served. But they will constantly apologize for such a reception, despite the fact that guests can see a richly laid table.

Residents of Latin America will never speak about the heat, it is impolite.

The English woman is the first to welcome a familiar man, as only she is entitled to publicly confirm the acquaintance with a man.

The visitors who leave without saying goodbye are called " left in English way" everywhere in the world. Only in England this kind of behavior is called "French leave."

To be known as a well-mannered person it is necessary... no, it is impossible to know all the rules. But the educated man distinguishes basic knowledge of dogma and is able to use them according to the situation.

1. Do not pay a visit without a prior notice. When the need to visit someone suddenly comes, call the owner beforehand and inform about the purpose and importance of the visit and the intended duration. Minimize a sudden visit and apologize for it.

2. If you are caught by the unexpected guest visit, according to the rules of etiquette you do not have to start immediately cleaning the room, change your pajamas to the other clothes and apply make-up. Find out the cause of the visit and then take a decision about this visit.

3. Throughout the world guests are not offered to remove their shoes in the hallway. Visitors must guess themselves about this action. If they do not, then your guests do not belong to the category of educated people.

4. How to deal with a bag or a purse in public dinner places:

- a woman's clutch can be put on the table;

- A large handbag, a backpack should be hung on the back of a chair, placed on the floor beside the chair; if the restaurant offers a special support for the bag you should use it;

- A bag is placed only on the floor.

Never and no kind of bag should be put on the lap or on your chair.

5. Using a plastic bag instead of the handbag is a top of ill-breeding. These packages are used exclusively for the delivery of newly purchased products from the supermarket to the destination. The same rule applies to all paper branded bags, even of the most fashionable boutiques.

6. Women's bag is designed only for women's hands. Even if it's heavy, a man is not obliged to carry woman’s handbags.

7. A woman can wear gloves and a hat indoors. But be sure to take off a cap and mittens.

8. In a decent society it is not allowed to spread rumors, gossips, talk negatively about the absent people. Sometimes there are people who begin speaking negatively about their relatives and friends. If your dear one is so bad, why do you continue to communicate with him? It is more correctly to break that unnecessary and uninteresting relationship and not to spoil Исправлено: do not spoil each other's lives than endlessly " present your inner problems" to the audience.